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Muslim Weddings
Nojoud Ali of Yemen was forced to marry, at age
nine, a man of 30. For this her father, who has two wives and sixteen
children, received 1,100 euros. Nojoud’s husband beat and raped her on a
daily basis.
Twenty-five percent of Yemeni girls aged 10 to 14
are married. Unlike many others, Nojoud was able to obtain legal counsel
and, in April 2008, she won a divorce. She said, “I will go back to school
and never, ever marry again. I am so happy to be free once more.”
Not quite. Now the world’s most famous little
Yemeni girl, people seek to interview her nearly every day. They pay her
father for the privilege. Her father keeps her home from school to give
interviews, and forbids her to see her counsel.
In collaboration with prize-winning French
journalist Delphine Minoui, Nojoud wrote a book, I, Nojoud, Ten Years,
Divorced. It has sold well. It has been published in eight countries
and is a best-seller in France. With royalties from it, she has bought a
house for her family.
On the fifth of March, Nojoud was to receive a
Women’s World Award in Vienna, but was not allowed to leave Yemen. The
award was accepted on her behalf by Queen Noor of Jordan.
Yemen is not unusual among Islamic countries. In
Saudi Arabia, for example, neither the birth nor the death of a woman is
recorded. A subject of that kingdom remarked that in its treatment of women
it was like a man who thinks with but half his brain.
To regain access to Middle East oil in the 1970s,
Europe agreed to allow far greater immigration from Islamic countries.
Consequently, honor killings and forced marriages have soared. It remains
to be seen whether Islamic society can counter such practices, and whether
western civilization can tolerate them.
Albert W. L. Moore, Jr. |